Time to stop being a flaky blogger! There’s always tons to write about anyway… it’s just finding the time.
So, my college roommate is now sort of kind of engaged, which is cool and fun cause now I know someone else in real life who is dealing with being a practical person and trying to plan a wedding. Of course, the wedding planning in my neck of the woods has come to a giant screeching halt. This is due in part to my new job being my focus right now.
However, it’s mostly due to a) Trey finally realizing he’s not happy in his current job, and starting to seriously job hunt; and b) having bought the house this year, and having some additional unexpected expenses both related to the house and my earlier need for a new automobile, forking up 10 grand for a big wedding party seems… excessive and unreasonable.
So for right now, until the job situation for Trey and the overall household money situation stabilizes, wedding planning is completely and 100% on hold. We shall see what happens.
The “wedding planning on hold” thing bugs me only slightly, and not because I always daydreamed about my wedding. Nope, it’s because I just don’t like the uncertainty. I want to know one way or another: are we having the big fancy wedding, or are we just going to end up eloping? I’m fine with either (and actually leaning more towards the latter most days!). I just want to know either way.